I have worked with both couples and individuals as a Psychologist for over 20 years and in one way or another the theme of any difficulty in a relationship is the tension between viewing a relationship as being of separate individuals or being of one whole together. It is in the fluidity of seeing ourselves as both individuals and as one whole linked together in a relationship, which becomes the practice of growth. I have had the privilege of witnessing clients gaining strength in themselves by learning to let go of their individual fears so they can begin to approach a sense of wholeness in their relationship. Read more
In each breath resides the future
looking back at you
from a knowing
seen from the stars
in universes curled up
like a cat
who raises one eye open
when it is disturbed
by a big bang.
“Not I, nor anyone else can travel that road for you.
You must travel it by yourself.
It is not far. It is within reach.
Perhaps you have been on it since you were born, and did not know.
Perhaps it is everywhere – on water and land.”
~ Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”