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What You Need to Know to Save Your Marriage

I have worked with both couples and individuals as a Psychologist for over 20 years and in one way or another the theme of any difficulty in a relationship is the tension between viewing a relationship as being of separate individuals or being of one whole together. It is in the fluidity of seeing ourselves as both individuals and as one whole linked together in a relationship, which becomes the practice of growth.  I have had the privilege of witnessing clients gaining strength in themselves by learning to let go of their individual fears so they can begin to approach a sense of wholeness in their relationship. Read more

To Be

To Be

I sit
as the thoughts go streaming by,
I watch
as the sensations tickle and coax,
I feel
as emotions emerge, surging to the surface
poking out from the covers of my body
to reach out their hand
to pull me under with them. Read more

A Beginning

In each breath resides the future
looking back at you
from a knowing
seen from the stars
in universes curled up
like a cat
who raises one eye open
when it is disturbed
by a big bang.



I think I know
who I am always
It doesn’t matter if I am here or there
I believe it is me
who ponders this question. Read more


What is left when all knowledge is taken,
beyond the words learned in books
and the stories told to us
by a culture
that’s existence is meant to absorb us. Read more

After The Storm

We are the light

not the clouds floating through

leaving shadows reflecting Read more

Quote by Walt Whitman

“Not I, nor anyone else can travel that road for you.
You must travel it by yourself.
It is not far. It is within reach.
Perhaps you have been on it since you were born, and did not know.
Perhaps it is everywhere – on water and land.”

~ Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass

Quote by Rumi

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
~ Rumi


The wind is my mirror

blowing my projections, back upon

my own reflection. Read more

The Novel Unwritten

The words lay sleeping

upon the page

until a mind Read more